Someone else took my job!!!

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It was a drill weekend and the guys I work with and I were talking about this and that, pretty much catching up on what was going on in each other’s lives. And one guy sort of complained about a promotion at his civilian job that he had been promised by the supervisor in that area. Not told he had a good chance but that he had the job. Well, he believed them and even though promised the job he still tries to make a good impression on the interview board and a few days later notified he did not get selected but no real explanation why he didn’t get the job he was promised and that caused him to feel bitter about it and bitter towards the person that promised him the job. We all talked about similar instances and how we had not gotten jobs that had been guaranteed by someone we trusted to be truthful and then we discussed the longer term impact as well as outcome in our lives because of that. I had similar things happen to me and I took my turn sharing the information.

I was working at a hospital in town in housekeeping that I had taken to try to get my foot in the door there as it was supposed to be much easier to get other jobs there if you were already an employee and after several months there was a job in the warehouse/supply room that paid a little better, but the hours were better with regular days and hours. I was pretty well acquainted with the supervisor for that area and spoke with him before applying. After talking with him and being told that he hoped that I would apply and that he looked forward to working with me and a few other things that made me believe that I had the job. I did the formal interview and everything he told me at that time left no doubt in my mind that I would be offered that position. Then, a week later when it came for time to be notified about the job I received a notice in the hospital mail system (this was before email) that I was not selected for the job. Oh, it was all said nicely, thanking me for my interest but that position had been filled. I was stunned given all I had been told. I soon learned that another employee in housekeeping was the one hired and he was a guy that I thought was a friend. But, I also found out that he knew I was applying for the same position (that I was unaware he had applied for also) and that he had gone out of his way to ingratiate himself to the department head over the warehouse and also next higher level manager over the supervisor who was supposed to be hiring for the position. In addition he had made more than a few derogatory statements about me to his “friend” and that friend he had made had told the supervisor who he was to hire. I felt like I had been stabbed in the back and lied to about the job and was disappointed. Money was tight back then and the small raise would have been helpful.

Very soon after he started the job, the guy that was hired started complaining to those he had worked with previously in house keeping that they didn’t leave him on days, it was only for training that he had been on day shift and he complained about a lot of other things that he found out were not as either of us had led to believe about the job. The friend that he had made that helped him get the job then started creating issues for him because the guy had lied on his application about his prior work experiences and was not a good employee. Others in the supply room soon found that he was not a good co-worker as he often left tasks uncompleted and was an unpleasant individual with whom to work. So, not only was the job no where near as great as I thought it would be, the one that was hired instead of me found out that the lies he put on his application and others he told about me to cause others to have a less favorable opinion of me to help himself seem a better applicant only got him a job he did not like. In the long run, not only did my prior coworker regret doing the things he did to get the job, the people in the department found out they had made a mistake in hiring him.

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. Galatians 6:7

A faithful man shall abound with blessings: but he that maketh haste to be rich shall not be innocent.  Proverbs 28:20

Then a couple months later a much better job was posted that while the hours were not as desirable the job would give me a lot of experience with reading EKG’s and an opportunity to learn a lot that would help me in the future plus it paid much better than the job in the supply room. I applied for that job and was hired for the position and in hindsight it became obvious that God was in control and was putting me in the job I needed to have to benefit me in the long term.

But if we hope for that we see not, [then] do we with patience wait for [it].     Romans 8:25

Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. Philippians 4:6

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Jeremiah 29:11

Better [is] the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: [and] the patient in spirit [is] better than the proud in spirit.  Ecclesiastes 7:8

I shared about a couple other times that times I applied for jobs and was not hired, then learned in later that they were not as great as I thought they would be and so, despite my thoughts that a job would be a good thing, it was much better that I did not get any of those jobs and better opportunities came along. I just needed to be more patient and trust God to know better than I about such things. I also shared about times I pushed to get jobs that very quickly I regretted getting hired as they were not as great as I thought but I stuck with them until something else came along that was better.

Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Psalms 37:4

I found that when I let God have the control things worked out better for me and despite the disappointments of not being hired for some of the jobs, things worked out better when I trusted Him than when I trusted myself and my own judgement. God is so much smarter than me! I also see in hind sight that those times I did not get the job because of bad decisions or, well, backstabbing by someone else, not only did the people that hired someone else instead of me regret their decisions, but those who did me wrong to get the jobs also regretted getting those positions as they were no where near as great as we had thought and that at times, the supervisors for whom they ended up working were not very good people to work for and not the people they had thought. More than once jobs I applied for and did not get would have not been beneficial in the long run and God was in control, even though I didn’t realize it at the time, He was preparing me and preparing the way for me to get a much better job.

 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.   Romans 8:28

The same thing applies to other aspects of my life as well, when I forced my will on a situation it did not go well, but when I let go and let God have control He rewarded  me and put me in much better circumstances. He is so much wiser than I and I should have been trusting Him more all along.

 

Lord, I worship You and thank You for all the blessings in my life and for the situations that did not seem to be a blessing at first, but only because I could not see the big picture and despite my limited sight, You took care of me and prepared the way before me. I than You for the sacrifice of Your son Christ and the salvation I have thank to His suffering and pain. I pray in the name of Jesus that I better allow You the control You should have and that I better trust You to know what is best for me and not trust my own limited judgement. I pray that You should my loved ones how to trust You and not be so quick to push for something that may not be the best for them and if they find themselves in such positions they turn things over to You. I pray You draw us all closer to You and help us all be better servants for You.

Amen

Thanks for your time. I hope all have a blessed day and that you take time to be a blessing to someone else.

 

 

 

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Expectations

Well, the auction is over and the amount of money generated didn’t meet what I hoped or expected. Obviously, I am disappointed by that fact; that the amount of time, effort and money invested did not produce as much as it cost me. Oh, there were intangible returns on the investment of time and effort. I was able to live and relive some very happy times; remembering this or that event tied to various items. The memories sometimes so vivid that it was like living them all over. And, now that the house is empty, the items gone, I also realize that the memories will never be gone. They can’t be sold or hauled off. People may at times try to say or do things to denigrate the memories, saying the things I remember have been tempered with time and things were not that wonderful. Well, they can say what they will and maybe there is a certain sort of nostalgia that makes things look better in memory than they really were when living through them but that doesn’t matter. The events are, in my mind, as I remember them now. But, I digress, my apologies for that.

Back to the expectations: I really expected more of a return and thought I had realistic expectations but also hoped for even more than I expected. So, that being said, what is the difference between hope and expectation? Are they similar or a lot different from one another. Well, they are sort of the same, and sort of different.

From merriam-webster.com:

(there are other examples, but for this, the following are most appropriate)

Expect

a: to consider probable or certain
expect to be forgiven
expect that things will improve
b: to consider reasonable, due, or necessary
expected hard work from the students
c: to consider bound in duty or obligated
they expect you to pay your bills

 

Hope

(verb):  to cherish a desire with anticipation : to want something to happen or be true

(noun): desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment

 

So, to expect is to have some sort of fact, promise or obligation where a certain thing or event will occur while hope is the desire for that thing to happen. We all have expectations and hopes throughout our lives. We expect to have to work to make a living; we expect to be paid for our efforts at work; we expect the lights to come on when we flip a switch. We hope to find a job we like, we hope to get a raise, we hope that the bulb isn’t burned out or for some other reason the power is out. We expect our children to go to school and study hard, we hope they get good grades and do well, in school and in life.  We also expect that others will treat us the way we treat them, to be honest, to mean what they say and to honor their promises. Others expect the same from us. So, once a promise is made, we expect others to behave in a way that is consistent with the promises they made. Someone promises a certain action, or promises to not do something, yet they fail to do as promised or they do something that they promised they would never do. We should be able to expect honesty from others. Of course, they have the right to expect honesty from us as well. But, what about hoping? Well, we all hope that others will treat us the way they expect to be treated. Sadly, that is far less common than I once believed.

Now, when I have been disappointed by others who do not live up to my expectations based on their promises, is it because I had legitimate cause for the expectations or was it more that I was hoping that they do certain things? Well, it is probably a combination of both having expectations and hoping. But, as with many experiences with other humans, I find that they do disappoint me. Some is possibly unrealistic expectations or hopes, but other times it is because they fail to honor their commitments. That being said, such is the fraility of humans, we allow ourselves to put too much faith in the promises of others or in our own wishes and at times everyone gives others expectations to which they don’t live up. Thus, setting ourselves and others up for disappointment.

I, like others, don’t like facing certain facts about myself but, I know I have disappointed others: my parents, friends, family, coworkers, and the list goes on, but the truth is that they were disappointed by things I did, or did not do. I did things they did not anticipate or expect me to do other times I didn’t do things they expected of me.

However, there is someone who won’t disappoint anyone, EVER. I may at times disappointment God because of my actions, but He will always do what is best for me. Even if I don’t see it at the time. I have expectations of God. I expect him to be all that He has promised He would be for me and I expect Him to comfort me, forgive me, make me a better person. Of course, those things are conditional on my serving Him. The thing about God is that He will live up to the expections. I know He will, because He promises to do so. He is my hope (the noun type) and my salvation, my strength and comfort in difficult times. Now, this hope is actually an expectation that is anxiously anticipated because He promises to be all those things for me, for us.  Christ is the hope for my mfuture. I have hope in Christ that He will give me a better life, an eternal life with Him. I have the expectation He will do so but the positive thoughts those hopes come from is the knowledge and expectations based on His word. What a wonderful God we serve.

 

My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him.  Psalms 62:5

For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.              Proverbs 23:18

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.  Jeremiah 29:11

According to my earnest expectation and my hope, that in nothing I shall be ashamed, but that with all boldness, as always, so now also Christ shall be magnified in my body, whether it be by life, or by death.  Philippians 1:20

 

There are a lot of scriptures that talk to the expectations that we can have of God if we follow Christ and serve Him. Expectations of blessings and rewards, some here on Earth, but more importantly rewards we can’t imagine in eternity.

But, He also warns us that we can expect other things if do not serve Him and instead live a life of sin and otherwise fail to follow Christ as we should follow Him.

The desire of the righteous is only good: but the expectation of the wicked is wrath.  Proverbs 11:23

When a wicked man dieth, his expectation shall perish: and the hope of unjust men perisheth.  Proverbs 11:7

The hope of the righteous shall be gladness: but the expectation of the wicked shall perish.  Proverbs 10:28

 

We have hope in Christ as well. This is the noun hope, the hope of a expectation of pleasant, cherished things happening.

By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.  Romans 5:2

24 For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for?
25 But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.      Romans  8:24-25

(Romans Chapter 8 is a good read, I would suggest all take a few minutes to read the whole chapter)

Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.  Romans 15:13

That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.  Titus 3:7

 

He promises us that we can have hope in Christ that we will be spending eternity with Him. That we WILL have salvation and that we WILL be rewarded for living for Jesus. I thank God that He gives me that type of promise that I can expect that from Him. I can rejoice in the hope of that time to come. He warns us that we can expect punishment for our sins if we do not come to Him who made forgiveness possible through the sacrifice of His son, through the suffering and blood of Christ when He died on the cross for our sins.

Lord, I praise and worship You. I thank you for the hope and expectations of my rewards in eternity with You. I pray in the name of Jesus that You help me better understand what I need to do, how I need to live, in order to have those things that are promised. I ask that You work in the hearts and minds of loved ones that they see the expectations they may have if they do as You have instructed, and that they realize that they may also expect eternal suffering for their failure to follow You and Your word. I ask that You draw us all to You that we may enjoy those rewards. That we all seek the forgiveness You offer and the salvation You have for us.

Amen

 

I do appreciate the time that all take to read what He puts on my heart. I hope that while He teaches me things that You are blessed as well. Please, try to be a blessing to others today as well.

 

 

 

 

The Rainbow

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11 And I will establish my covenant with you; neither shall all flesh be cut off any more by the waters of a flood; neither shall there any more be a flood to destroy the earth.
12 And God said, This is the token of the covenant which I make between me and you and every living creature that is with you, for perpetual generations:
13 I do set my bow in the cloud, and it shall be for a token of a covenant between me and the earth.
14 And it shall come to pass, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the bow shall be seen in the cloud:
15 And I will remember my covenant, which is between me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and the waters shall no more become a flood to destroy all flesh.
16 And the bow shall be in the cloud; and I will look upon it, that I may remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is upon the earth.
17 And God said unto Noah, This is the token of the covenant, which I have established between me and all flesh that is upon the earth.

Genesis 9:11-17

 

I had some errands to run this evening, and we had some brief showers, but nothing much, but, after that there were several rainbows. Well, pretty colors and all yes, but I thought about how that is one of the few areas we can SEE the what He gave humanity as a sign of the promise to never destroy the earth with flooding again. Oh, there are areas that get flooded, but not EVERYTHING. We know He is faithful and true. But, other times, He makes promises but doesn’t give us physical signs we can see. Regardless of evidence we can see, we KNOW what He promises He will deliver. And, as I think about knowing that He will do as He promises, it is faith in action. Seeing something and believing is much easier than simply accepting it because He says so.

1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
2 For by it the elders obtained a good report.
3 Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.
4 By faith Abel offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain, by which he obtained witness that he was righteous, God testifying of his gifts: and by it he being dead yet speaketh.
5 By faith Enoch was translated that he should not see death; and was not found, because God had translated him: for before his translation he had this testimony, that he pleased God.
6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
7 By faith Noah, being warned of God of things not seen as yet, moved with fear, prepared an ark to the saving of his house; by the which he condemned the world, and became heir of the righteousness which is by faith.
8 By faith Abraham, when he was called to go out into a place which he should after receive for an inheritance, obeyed; and he went out, not knowing whither he went.
9 By faith he sojourned in the land of promise, as in a strange country, dwelling in tabernacles with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise:
10 For he looked for a city which hath foundations, whose builder and maker is God.
11 Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him faithful who had promised.

Hebrews 11:1-11

 

And Jesus said unto them, Because of your unbelief: for verily I say unto you, If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you.  Matthew 17:20

 

Yes, God gave Noah and the rest of us prove of His promise. But, despite something I can see, I still have faith in His word, in the power of the Name of Jesus, the power of salvation and redemption. I have faith, that is something that with several of the episodes I have talked about that I have felt grow stronger. Oh, I still want it stronger still, but the extent of faith I have now is far greater than I ever have in my life. I praise Him for the gift of faith.

 

Heavenly Father, I praise You and thank You for the rainbow to show proof of Your promise. I thank You even more for not only giving me the faith to believe all of Your promises that of which I have no visual or physical evidence, but that You are strengthening my faith daily. I ask that You continue to increase my faith in You, as well as my desire to serve You. In Jesus name I ask that You help those whose faith is faltering, due to difficult circumstances in which they see no option or way out, that You show them that Christ is the way, the truth and the light. Show them their true source of deliverance and that no circumstance they face is beyond Your ability to bring them out and put them where You want them to be.

Amen

 

Thanks for the stop by my blog. I hope this helps someone besides just me. Pass it on as you feel He leads you and don’t forget to be a blessing to at least one other person today.