And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. John 8:32

 

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My mother would quote this scripture when I was a child and she thought I, my brother or someone else was lying about something like when someone broken something or maybe got into some candy without permission or whatever other mischief kids are prone to get into. She would start out asking us as a group, then as individuals. She would usually quote John 8:32. Eventually someone would confess or tattle on the guilty party at risk of getting into further trouble. And, because of when she used it, I often thought back then that it was essentially a scripture for use with guilty parties to “force” a confession so they would have less punishment and, to an extent, that is true. BUT, the truth that sets us free is the truth of Christ, the Son of God, who died for our sins and was resurrected. Defeating death and earning us forgiveness and salvation that we don’t deserve. AND….we escape all punishment for our sins.

But, I also realize that like many scriptures there is more than a simple meaning to it. Yes, there is always a simple understanding of the scripture, but there is often a deeper, more profound, meaning to many verses and passages. Now I have come to realize that the truth of Christ is not the only truth to set one free. Sometimes in life a person is accused of some sort of wrong doing but the truth comes out, the falsely accused will be found innocent. Such a situation occurred at work not too long ago, one nurse accused another of not doing some things at work she was supposed to do, and also claimed the accused nurse did some things she didn’t do, issues with patient treatment that came up after the patient complained that something was done wrong. Well, nurse A accused nurse B, because nurse C made statements to the effect that nurse B did not splint a patient as they were told, and that they gave them a wrong medication. Confusing? Hang on, because it gets worse.  But anyway, one nurse accused another because of what a third nurse told them because of what yet another nurse said that they heard. Well, it was a few days after the fact before it was reported and the supervisor started to investigate the situation. At first, the nurse that was accused by another nurse that was not even working the day it supposedly happened but said “she was told” that the nurse didn’t know what she was doing, splinted the patient wrong and then did not check the medication that she gave the patient. Well, she didn’t say who told her but did admit it was what she heard but did not know for certain. Well, the accused nurse was on duty the day in question, but after reviewing all the information she was not the nurse that was taking care of the patient involved and after they determined what nurse was actually taking care of the patient they talked with her and she initially denied, but then later admitted that she did not know how to apply the splint she was supposed to put on the patient. Now, she could have asked and someone would have helped her or done the splint for her. In addition to that, she said that she was stressed because of the splint and “may have grabbed the wrong pill bottle.” Well, as it was she only gave a lower dose of the prescribed medication but not a wrong medication. Still, too low of a dose and the patient did not get the pain relief they should have gotten. There was a lot of conjecture about who told nurse A about what happened and most seemed to believe that the nurse that actually started the rumor and almost got the initially accused nurse into a lot of trouble was likely the one to start it. All done by a different nurse to try to keep herself out of trouble.

A few lessons in this case, if one doesn’t know something they should ask for help; if one does something wrong then admit it. Because as it stands, the truly guilty nurse had more problems after all this than if she had fessed up in the beginning. Nurse B who was falsely accused and had to deal with a lot of the fall out was in the end, exonerated. Although, put through a lot of stress unfairly, because of the unsubstantiated allegations that were made and some “judgement” of being guilty until proven innocent was applied. All in all, it was a mess for a while. Because someone would not admit to a mistake and because of the effect of the rumor mill.

BUT, the truth, when it finally came out, did make nurse B free. Not the freedom from sin and eternal damnation from which they who believe In Christ receive but freedom from the repercussions of someone else’s wrong act.

Well, thinking about the times my mom would quote John 8:32 she would often also quote:

But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out. Numbers 32:23

She would try to get someone to confess and if the guilty party did confess they would probably get a lecture about being more careful, but if they did not admit to whatever had happened she warned she would find out and the punishment would be more severe. Well, the same thing applied to the nurse that initially messed up. She apparently tried to cover up her wrong doing by causing scrutiny of an innocent person.

As I think about this situation, there are a lot of lessons to be learned, on a day to day, real life situation it is better to admit shortcomings than to try and cover them up. It also reminds me that if one sins and does not confess to Christ that they are a sinner and ask for God’s forgiveness, they will have a price to pay for their sins. BUT, the truth and glory of God’s mercy and grace is that He sent His Son, Jesus, to stand in the gap for us, to take our sins upon Himself and obtain forgiveness for us.

 

Lord, I pray that I remember the truth of Christ and His sacrifice for me. That my forgiveness is not earned by me, but bought by Christ, the true Son of God. I ask in Jesus Name that You help me avoid sin and to live as You wish so that I can be an example of Christ on earth. I ask that You forgive me of any sins and that You help me see the truth in all situations before I subject someone to unfair scrutiny and false accusations. Teach me to not judge others and to not gossip and cause others to suffer needlessly. Draw us all closer to You and teach us all to be the Christians You wish us to be.

Amen

 

I hope all are ready for a great weekend, that you are blessed and also that you have a chance to be a blessing to someone else.

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Is it too late?

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I was having a conversation with someone at work the other day and they commented about wanting to finish a degree, currently this person has an Associates degree but wants to get a Bachelor’s degree. But, as we talked, age came up and she said it 2 years and she would be X years old and then asked me if I thought it was dumb or if it was too late. Well, I related to her about my deciding to get my Bachelor’s degree and then go to med school and how so many “friends”, coworkers, family and others liked to tell me that it would take at least 8 years for college and med school, then residency in addition to that would be 3 or more years, usually adding, “do you know how old you will be in 11 years?” Well, as it is, I do happen to be able to do math and I knew my age, so yes, I knew how old I would be in 11 years (or in my coworkers case, 2 years) and that being said, I also realized that had I waited, I would in 1, 2 or however many years later, think about almost starting and then not doing it, I would have been that much older when I got it done. SO….I went, and I told her that if it is a goal she has, then waiting only delays things and since nurses with a BSN make so much more than with an ADN that it would help her financially plus give her other options for work that ADNs don’t have at this time.

SO, to answer her question: No, it is not too late! But, that question comes up a lot of times, my grandson is struggling some with math, and its because he takes too long on tests and then gets in a hurry, so doesn’t do well on the exams. But, he made a comment about how its halfway through the school year and its too late now. Well, no, because of one problem or another, things may be an uphill climb to get to his grade where it should be, but its not too late. If someone says or does something hurtful to another, can that be undone, no, but it can be forgiven and moved past…so, its not too late. Some even say that it is too late for them to have a relationship with God. They did this, that or whatever and start to feel that God won’t want them or forgive them. God will always forgive. As long as one is still alive, it is not too late.

15 See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,
16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.  Ephesians 5:15-17  (KJV)

So He doesn’t want us to be foolish, He wants us to be wise with our time, to learn God’s will and to do it, but He doesn’t say it is too late. Like the father in the parable of the Prodigal Son, God is waiting for us to come back and will greet us with love and mercy.

Lord, Thank You for the lessons, for reminding me that it is never too late to come to You and to do Your will for us. I pray in the name of Jesus that You continue to teach me that we should never give up on anyone or think it is too late. And, while it is never too late, the sooner one takes the steps they should take, the better served they, and YOU will be. I pray that You help me be the person You want me to be so I can be an example of Christ’s impact in a person’ life. I ask that You draw my family and loved ones to You and show them all Your plan for them.

Amen

Thank You all for your time today. I hope all have a blessed day and are able to be a blessing to others as well.